Sex series: 5 ways to spice up your sex life

Hello wifey,

This month, I am not joking at all. Your sex life must never remain the same again. Today, I will be writing on 6 ways to spice up your sex life.

Who says that a Christian marriage has to be boring? Spirituality is not boringness (actually I had to check Google to be sure that there's a word like this, and guess what I found out, there is😅).

God wants us to have fun, he wants us to enjoy ourselves and that is one of the reasons why He gave us the gift of sex. 

Things don't have to go the same way everytime. You can be adventurous in the bedroom, and still be godly. Enough of routines please. 

5 ways to spice up your sex life

This month, there must be a change (now I have taken things personal 🤣).


Spicing up your sex life does not mean watching porn together or inviting more people into your bedroom. In God's kingdom, there's a way we behave. We don't act like the world acts. We operate by the Kingdom principles and we bring glory to our King. 

So, what are the five things you can try out this month?

1. Try Another Location

Please and please, I beg you (on my knees), make sure you try out another location this month. Enough of sex in the bedroom every single day. How about the kitchen? How about the bathroom or the floor of one of the rooms. How about places outside your house, like an hotel room?

Here's an interesting article I found on getting out of bed and enjoying great sex.

2. Try another position

5 ways to spice up your sex life

Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex therapist in L.A said "Anytime you introduce something fresh and novel into the bedroom, you set yourself up for a more stimulating experience and bigger finish."

Yes, this is why this month, you have to try out new positions. Can I give you a gist? The Holy Spirit can give you style and position inspirations (Pastor Dorcas Omodieke) shared this with my group of wives and I🤣). He's interested in your sex life, as much as He's interested in your prayer and word life. Whenever, positions are exhausted and you just need a bit of creativity, ask the Spirit of God and He's going to guide you. He can guide you to discover and locate helpful resources like this, or just cause ideas to pop up in your heart.

3.  Quickies can also be fun

Common, wifey, Sex does not have to always be long. Don't hold on till you have all the time to explore. How about having a 2 mins sex while on your way out? Quickies are definitely fun and you should try it out this month.

4. Use sex coupons

Yay, make use of sex coupons. Sex coupons contain ideas of sexual activities that you can engage in with your husband. It's always fun to make use of sex coupons. 

I told you that I am not joking this month🤣. I have prepared sex coupons for you to download here.

How does it work?

I have 29 ideas, all together on the coupons. Sample of the ideas include: full body massage, all night sex, quickie, 50 kisses not on lips etc.

Everyday, either of you should pick a coupon and do whatever it says for the other person. 

For instance, if today you pick 1, 1 says full body massage, that means you are giving your husband a full body massage. Tomorrow, your husband is to pick a number. If he picks 4 for instance, 4 says I will lap dance. This means that your husband will lap dance for you (hahahaha).

You are set to have all the fun you can get in this month.

5. Plan sex games

5 ways to spice up your sex life

Sex games are also very interesting ways to spice up your sex life this month. 

There are several sex games that you can plan with your husband.

Here are some inspirations:

1. Ask questions from each other about past events. For every wrong response, you loose a piece of clothing.

Example of questions:
*What did you eat on your first date?
*What colour of cloth did you put on?
*Your relationship anniversary
*The date you met your parents for the first time
*The colour of cloth you wore on that day
*And many more questions (make it as fun as possible).

2. On a sheet of paper, write some activities and number them (e.g. 1 kiss me, 2 hug me etc. Make sure the activities are really sexual). On another sheet of paper, write numbers 1, 2, 3, 4 etc. Roll two dice and carry out the corresponding activities. For instance, if your die gives 1, 4, that means you have to kiss hubby 4 times, and if his die gives 2, 3, he has to hug you 3 times).

Here is another link you can check for more games inspiration.

Please let me know in the comment section how you feel about this post.


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